Why is it okay to dislike something or somebody and why is it fine when we are in this journey of self-growth and spirituality and attracting things into our life
When you are awakening, on your spiritual journey, when you are thinking about what’s best for your life many times we feel that it is wrong if we don’t like something. We are all on this journey where we seem to be needing to be positive all the time and happy all the time. And then things will come to us we are manifesting, we are living the best life always and in order to do that we need to be positive all the time.
In reality is not like that, it’s not real, that is not the way that anyone lives. It is not a fact that you’re gonna be able to be happy 24 7 365. The reality is life happens and sometimes you’re not gonna be able to be as happy or or you know to be in the highest vibration that you could possibly be. It’s just life, is the way it is. We are human and we are here to have a human experience.
The world we live in
We live in a world of duality and I think that most of us sometimes forget that. This is a good reason why it’s good to know what you don’t like. When you dislike something and you’re able to recognize it, and you know exactly what it is that you don’t like you now have awareness. This can help you actually grow and expand, and be better and by contrast it helps you define what you actually like and what you’re actually passionate about. What you love and what are the good things that you should be focusing on instead of focusing on something that you truly do not like. I know it seems controversial but the reality is when you are able to recognize that there is something that you dislike you’re actually opening the doors of expansion to experience things that you do like. Because now that you know what you don’t like and you know how to deal with it you know how not to focus upon the thing you know how to react in a different manner towards it.
You know by contrast the good things that can come and you are actually making a space for all of these other good things that can come to you. Remember the best is always coming. Noone should feel guilty about being in a spiritual journey and disliking because there’s this talk about you know you need to like everything because you’re spiritual and you’re positive and that’snot the way it works.
It’s not fair to think that that’s the way that it’s going to work because it won’t . So in this duality you need to recognize actually what you don’t like, focus so you know how to deal with it, you know what to do with it and you know not to particularly pay attention to it anymore. When you are in this con discordance with something it just means by contrast, by duality that there is something on that other side that you actually agree with or that you love with or that you can act upon it.